Today is the 6th Ramadhan 1435 and as part of our Ramadhan Activities we have been reviewing some examples of Good deeds and learning What Breaks the Fast.
I discussed the topic of what breaks our fast with my 6 and 7 year old before they completed a page from the ‘Welcome Ramadan’ Workbook by A Muslim Homeschool.
My son also completed his Ramadhan Notebooking page on the same topic and we discussed in detail the effects of back-biting and lying whilst fasting. We read through the following article:
It is reported that ‘Umar – Allâh be pleased with him – said:
Fasting does not mean keeping away from only food and drink, it also means keeping away from lying, falsehood, inanity and swearing [by Allâh without need].
It is reported that Ibrâhîm Al-Nakha’î – Allâh have mercy on him – said:
They used to say: lying breaks the fast.
It is reported that Mujâhid – Allâh have mercy on him – said:
There are two practices, if a person can keep himself from them, his fast will be secured for him: backbiting and lying.
It is related that Abul-’Âliyah – Allâh have mercy on him – said:
The fasting person is in a state of worship as long as he does not backbite. 
It is reported that Hafsah bint Sîrîn – Allâh have mercy on her – said:
Fasting is a shield as long as one does not tear it, and tearing it is when you backbite. 
It is reported that Anas b. Mâlik – Allâh be pleased with him – said:
If the fasting person backbites, his fast is broken. 
Explaining the meaning of sins breaking the fast, Shaykh Al-Islâm Ibn Taymîyah – Allâh have mercy on him – states: 
It is related from some of the Salaf that backbiting, tale carrying and the likes break the fast, and it is mentioned as one opinion in the madhab of Imâm Ahmad. The final word on this issue is that Allâh the Exalted commanded people to fast in order to achieve piety (taqwâ), and Allâh’s Messenger – praise and peace of Allâh be upon him – stated:
Whoever does not leave off false speech and acting by it; then Allâh is not in need of him abandoning his food and drink.
So if the fasting person does not achieve piety, he has not achieved what is intended through fasting, and so the reward of [his] fast will decrease in accordance [with how much he has gone against the intended goal, i.e. commensurate with his sins].
Righteous deeds have two intended goals: gaining reward and avoiding punishment. If a person fasts while also doing forbidden things, like backbiting, carrying tales between people or consuming what is forbidden and so on, he loses the reward.
Thus, when the imams say [backbiting etc.] does not break the fast, it means that the person who sins is not punished in the way a person who openly breaks his fast would be punished.
And those who said it does break the fast in the sense that the person has not achieved the intended goal behind fasting, or in the sense that he has lost the reward for fasting, then this statement is in agreement with the position of the imams.
One who says it breaks the fast in the sense that the person is to be punished for leaving [the fast], then he is in contradiction to the imams.
A person who disobeys Allâh while fasting hasn’t truly grasped the intent behind fasting. The real goal is to achieve piety and obedience of Allâh through the abandonment of food, drink and sin. Although a person who backbites, lies or does other sins is not considered to have physically broken his fast, he loses the reward of fasting and in this sense he has broken his fast.
Allâh knows best.
 Ibn Abî Al-Shaybah, Al-Musannaf articles 8975, 8980, 8981 and 8982.
 ‘Abd Al-Razzâq Al-San’ânî, Al-Musannaf articles 8975.
 Hunâd b. Al-Saree, Al-Zuhd article 1204.
 Badr Al-Dîn Al-Ba’lî. Mukhtasar Al-Fatâwâ Al-Masrîyah pp288, 289. 1st edn. 1418H. Dâr Al-Kutub Al-’Ilmîyah. Beirut, Lebanon.
Then my younger girls made a poster about Good Deeds using these Good Deed Cards. The cards can also be printed in multiples to be used to play memory games or card games like SNAP! You can download the cards by clicking on the links below:
To finish off, they completed some Good Deed worksheets from A Muslim Homeschool’s Adhab Section.
My daughter Samira completed today’s page from the TJ Ramadhan Copy Work pages, writing about the importance of Suhoor and why it differentiates us from the People of the Book.
Finally we discussed the statement of Shaykh Uthaymeen, rahimahullah:
Shaykh Muhammad ibn Saalih al-‘Uthaymeen:
“Those who have the ability should strive to feed those who are fasting (when it’s time to break the fast) either in the masaajid or in other places. This is since whoever feeds a fasting person, he will receive the same reward as the one fasting. So if a person feeds his brothers who are fasting, he will receive the same reward as them. Therefore, those whom Allaah has granted wealth should take advantage of this opportunity to obtain a great reward.”
(Su’aalan fis-Siyaam #48)
The kids then helped me to do some online shopping to choose items so that we can prepare some food packages for some Muslim families. May Allah accept their good deeds, ameen.